Dreading the Cost, Conflict, and Emotional Drama of Divorce?

What if you could end your marriage without making mistakes, Hurting Your kids, or spending a fortune?

[Spoiler Alert] Once you know how the divorce system really works and you implement a solid divorce PLAN - you can!

Karen Covy in a pink suit with her book "When Happily Ever After Ends"

Divorce is Never Easy. But It Doesn't Have to Bankrupt You or Ruin Your Life.

No one walks down the aisle of marriage thinking they're going to divorce.

But it happens.

It happens every day. It happens to good people.

If it's happening to you then like most people you're probably feeling stuck and more than a little bit overwhelmed. You're not sure how to prepare for what lies ahead, and you're anxious about your financial future. You're also worried that if you don't do this right your spouse is going to lawyer up and roll right over you.

  • You want your divorce to be amicable (if that's possible.)
  • You want your divorce to be fair (meaning you don't want to get taken advantage of, or have to wait until you're 97 years old before you can afford to retire.)
  • You don't want it to mess up your kids (although you know your divorce will affect them.)
  • You don't want to end up so bitter, broke,  and broken that you're never able to find the healthy relationship and love you long for.
  • Most of all you don't want to pay tens (or hundreds!) of thousands  of dollars in legal fees or spend years mired in court.

But you're not sure if any of that's possible OR (if it is possible) how you can do it.

Close up of a male divorce lawyer in a navy blue suit.

Divorce is complex, but it doesn’t have to be hopelessly confusing or endlessly stressful ...IF you do it right. 

When most people think about divorce, they do one of two things:

1.  They immediately go to see a divorce lawyer AND/OR

2. They start Googling everything they can think of that's in any way related to divorce hoping that will somehow prepare them for what they're facing.

BOTH of those approaches can cost you dearly.

Here's why.

Divorce lawyers are important, but they're also trained to fight.  STARTING your divorce by hiring a divorce lawyer - especially when you don't understand what you're doing - is a great way to start the expensive war you're trying to avoid. (... and with divorce lawyers charging between $300 - $750 per hour, your legal fees can add up quickly!)

Here's a secret that divorce lawyers don't tell you: For most people - divorce is only about 10% legal. You can let that legal part "drive the bus" of your divorce. (Most people do.) But unless you've got the other 90% dialed in, you're not likely to get the result you want in the peaceful way you want to get it.

As for Google,  any query you enter will return hundreds of thousands of generic search results from websites you don't know with information you're not sure you can trust.  You can spend days sifting through mountains of information - much of which of which conflicts - only to end up with information that's OUTDATED, INCOMPLETE or WRONG.  (.... which is totally not your fault. If you don't know what to Google, how can you expect to get the information you need?!)

It's no wonder that most people end up frustrated, confused, and exhausted as they go through their divorce.

NOW THERE'S A BETTER WAY.

Introducing ...

The Divorce Road Map 3.0

The PREMIER online divorce program that enables you to TAKE CONTROL of your divorce, SAVE TIME, SAVE MONEY, and AVOID NEEDLESS DRAMA. 

The Divorce Road Map 3.0 is a unique, comprehensive online program designed for people just like you who want to take control of their divorce process and emerge stronger on the other side. With a focus on strategic planning, clear guidance, and practical tools, this program will help you:

  • Understand the Divorce Process: You will discover the different pathways you can take—mediation, collaborative divorce, litigation, and more. We’ll break down each process so that you can choose the best path for your unique situation.
  • Work Effectively with Your Lawyer: Knowing how you can with your attorney as a team is crucial for reducing costs and improving outcomes. I’ll teach you how to prepare, ask the right questions, and leverage your lawyer’s expertise so that you get the biggest bang for your buck.
  • Communicate Clearly & Confidently: Divorce conversations can be difficult, especially if you have a spouse who's angry, defensive, or uncooperative.  This program gives will teach you how to have clear, conflict-reducing communication that keeps your divorce moving forward instead of stalling out midway through.
  • Develop a Strong Parenting Plan: If you have children, you’ll get expert guidance on how to craft a workable parenting plan that prioritizes your kids' well-being and builds a stable foundation for co-parenting in the future.
  • Achieve Financial Stability: If you want financial stability AFTER your divorce you NEED financial clarity during your divorce. This program will show you how to assess and analyze your finances, and make financial decisions that will set you up for a financially secure future.

What's best is that, unlike a divorce lawyer, this program is available 24/7/365 with NO extra charge no matter how many times you watch the videos or download the materials.

The Divorce Road Map Story

I'm Karen Covy. I've been a Divorce Lawyer, Mediator, Arbitrator, Collaborative Divorce Professional and Coach for decades ... but I didn't start out this way. 

I started my career as a trial lawyer.  I  practiced many different kinds of law  in many different kinds of courts over the years.

When I started  working in divorce court, what I saw shocked me.

I saw people making bad decisions - not because they were bad people - but because they didn't know any better.  They weren't prepared to make the decisions they were being asked to make, so they made them emotionally ... which  often didn't give them the long-term result they were after.

I saw high-priced lawyers who didn't bother to educate their clients about all their divorce options, or who focused more on "fighting for their clients' rights"  (while lining their own pockets) than on being reasonable and putting an end to the fights that were tearing their clients' families apart.

I saw a divorce system that couldn't give people what they wanted, and often didn't even give them what they needed.

And I decided there had to be a better way.

So I created the Divorce Road Map Program - a  program that's specifically designed to give ordinary people access to insider information  that will enable them to make better decisions and take control of their own divorce, all while saving time, money, and a lot of pain in the process.

Hundreds of people have  now been through the Divorce Road Map program over the past few years.

Here's what they've said about it.

Praise for the Divorce Road Map Program

I Wish I Would Have STARTED With This Program!

This was the best ... investment I have ever made, and should be REQUIRED reading for anyone at any stage of the divorce process - particularly at the beginning. Somehow (Karen) has managed to tailor the content to both parties to a divorce; no small feat for sure. (I would have saved thousands of dollars that I spent on the attorney I now have on retainer as a “consultant” since my husband and I are trying not to litigate!)

Anonymous

This Program Gave Me Structure and Direction

I bought your course and went through it fairly quickly. ... I had already been mulling over filing for a divorce for almost 5 years, but your course gave me the structure, information, and confidence to make the decision and move forward with the process. My divorce process went very quickly and smoothly. ... my only regret was that I didn't make the decision sooner.



Anonymous

What a Great Simple, Actionable, Road Map!

What appealed most to me about this program is that it aligns with my way of thinking. I am naturally practical and appreciate order and straight-forward action steps. I wanted and needed a “been there, done that”, objective voice of reason. I was experiencing enough conflicting thoughts, so I did not need to “add to the peanut gallery”. It was comforting to me that some actions I had already taken were on target. It also was a great road map of what to do next and to expect.

Anonymous

Here's What You'll Get in the Divorce Road Map 3.0

the ability to Anticipate what's coming

One of the most anxiety-ridden parts of divorce is the fact that - unless you're a lawyer yourself - you have NO IDEA what to expect.  You don't know how the process works and you don't know what you're supposed to do first, second, or third. 

Because you don't know what's coming, you can't make a plan. When things happen, you're not prepared. That puts you at an immediate disadvantage. 

You're forced to REACT instead of act. You're always a step  or two behind. 

The Divorce Road Map 3.0 will give you a FRAMEWORK for understanding both the big picture AND the details of divorce so that you're always prepared and can be proactive instead of reactive.

the confidence that comes from having a plan

Most people assume that their lawyer is going to make a divorce plan for them.  While that may be true for the legal side of divorce, it has nothing to do with the 90% of divorce that's NOT legal.

Unless you have a plan that puts ALL of the pieces of divorce together IN THE RIGHT WAY and AT THE RIGHT TIME you're not going to do as well.

The Divorce Road Map 3.0 will enable you to understand what you're facing and how the system works so that you can identify your next steps and create a complete plan that will help you get better results with more confidence.

the chance to save time and money while minimizing conflict

Once you understand how divorce works and how attorneys work you will be able to start using your attorney more wisely and saving money in the process.

When you know how to have difficult conversations (especially with your spouse!), and you understand how to start your divorce off on the right foot, you'll be in a better position to  minimize the conflict (and therefore the expense!) of your divorce.

When you know what has to happen in order for you to get divorced you can start working on many of the pieces of your divorce yourself. That will move things along more quickly, and save you money as well.

What Divorce Road Map Customers Have Said

An Anxiety-Reducer

This program changed how I was able to protect my children and greatly reduced my anxiety at a time of intense emotions and pressure.


Anonymous

A Great Investment

Absolutely recommend. No one ever thinks they'll be in this situation, but unfortunately many of us end up here and Karen's program is worth every penny...both financially and emotionally.

Anonymous

Makes Working with an Attorney Easier

This is a great place to start, (especially) if you have never had to work with an attorney before. The interview questions especially are invaluable as you interview and select your divorce attorney

Anonymous

Divorce Road Map 3.0 Modules

Here's what you'll discover in the Divorce Road Map 3.0

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Module 1: The Divorce Road Map Framework

Most divorces follow a fairly predictable pattern. Yet, while the divorce professionals know the pattern, getting them to describe it to you in a simple, step-by-step process is almost impossible. They just don't do it.

The Divorce Road Map Framework does. It takes you through the 10 steps that you WILL have to go through in your divorce, no matter which divorce process you use.

Armed with this road map you will be able to calmly work through each step of your divorce, without worrying that you’re going to miss something or be blindsided by something your attorney forgot to warn you about.

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Module 2: Choosing the Right Divorce Process

There are many different ways you can get divorced today, including Mediation, Litigation,  Negotiation, Collaborative Divorce, DIY Divorce, Kitchen Table Divorce and more. The divorce process you use directly affects, not only on your experience of divorce, but the outcome you ultimately get.

The tricky part is that not every divorce process will work well for every couple. If you choose the WRONG divorce process you will waste an enormous amount of time and money.

In the Divorce Road Map 3.0 you will discover what all the different divorce processes are and how they work. Most importantly, you will get a simple tool that will show you how to choose the divorce process that will best align with your goals and your situation so that you make the right divorce process choice.

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Module 3: Understanding Your Finances to Make Smarter Financial Decisions

Money is one of the biggest issues in most divorces, and for good reason. If you make financial mistakes in your divorce you will not only lost money now, but those mistakes can keep costing you money for years into the future.

That's why the Divorce Road Map 3.0 will dedicate an entire module to exploring finances. (... AND it will explore them in simple, practical, and easy-to-understand ways!)

Whether the thought of looking at a page full of numbers makes your head spin, or whether you consider yourself fairly financially savvy, this module will help you discover ways to find and analyze your financial information so that you can make better financial decisions in your divorce.

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Module 4: Minimizing the Impact of Divorce on Your Children

If you’re a parent, making sure your kids are okay in spite of your divorce is probably one of your biggest concerns. You want to try to keep your divorce from disrupting their lives as much as possible while also maintaining a strong healthy relationship with them both during and after your divorce.

In Module 4 you will get the tips and tools you need to :

  • Make a parenting schedule that actually works for you and your family;
  • Identify the issues you need to cover in your Parenting Plan so that you don’t miss anything;
  • Confidently handle the money issues involving your kids (… more than just child support!);
  • Tell your kids you're getting a divorce without scarring them for life.
  • Help your kids make a smooth transition into a new family structure.
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Module 5: Working With Your Lawyer Effectively and Efficiently

Finding and working with a divorce lawyer who does his/her job well, is honest, and charges you fairly, is one of the biggest unexpected challenges you will face in your divorce.

Luckily, there are more ways to work effectively with a lawyer today than there ever were in the past. But if you want to take advantage of the new legal options, you have to know what they are and how they work.

In the Divorce Road Map 3.0 you will find out how to get legal advice in the way that will work best for you - whether that's full-on representation or a la carte services.  You will also discover how to find and work with a divorce lawyer who's on the same page as you and will help you achieve your divorce goals WITHOUT starting a war or stirring the pot.

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Module 6: How to Navigate Difficult Conversations

Divorce is full of difficult conversations. It starts with your initial conversation telling your spouse that you want a divorce. But it includes conversations about money, betrayal, and broken trust. It also includes conversations with and about your kids as you transition them into a "new normal."

None of these conversations is easy. Yet, if you handle them well, they can lay the ground work for a more peaceful divorce, and a more productive co-parenting relationship.

Even if you and your spouse can't talk about ANYTHING right now without getting into an argument, you can create ways to communicate that won't cause an explosion. The Divorce Road Map 3.0 will give you tools to do exactly that.

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Module 7: Putting All the Pieces Together After Your Divorce

Contrary to what most people think, your divorce doesn't end when the judge bangs the gavel and pronounces you divorced. If you're like most people, you will still have assets to divide, debts to pay off, and financial paperwork to process after your divorce.

If you don't take care of all the loose ends after your divorce, you can un-do all the hard work you just spent months trying to accomplish.

The Divorce Road Map 3.0 will help you make sure you have done everything you need to do so that you can condfidently put your divorce behind you.

What Other Divorce Road Map Customers Have Said

This Gave Me Confidence

There's a level of confidence I gained from going through the Divorce Road Map program that makes me feel more secure as I go through my divorce. This program helped a LOT! It has made a huge difference!

Anonymous

This Was Incredibly Helpful

Incredibly helpful from start to finish. Easy to get through and helps keep perspective and enables realistic goal-setting. Anyone who finds themselves in this unfortunate situation needs to take this course. It's money and time well invested. Not "spent" but "invested" in yourself.

Anonymous

I Wanted Information I Could RELY On

It was important to me to get factual information from an unbiased professional. I didn't know what I didn't know!

Anonymous

The reason that so many divorces get ugly and expensive is that most people dive into them blindly. They're not prepared. They don't have a plan. And much of what they "think" is true about divorce is wrong.

To get through your divorce INTELLIGENTLY, without breaking the bank or causing a war you need 3 THINGS:

Knowledge That's Accurate and Complete

Preparation So You're Ready for What's Coming

An Actionable Plan That Helps You Achieve Your Goals

The Divorce Road Map 3.0 will provide you with all of those ... and you don't even have to leave your home to get them.

Here’s What You’ll Get When You Sign Up

Packed with value, the Divorce Road Map 3.0 is the ONLY program of it's kind that's specifically designed to help you get through your divorce more amicably, affordably, and efficiently WITHOUT giving up the things that matter most to you.

Access to the Exclusive Divorce Road Map Framework
VALUE: $500
Downloadable Checklists, Handouts & Spreadsheets to Keep You Organized.
VALUE: $500
Easy to Watch Informational Videos That You Can View 24/7/365
VALUE: $4,500
Money Saved in Legal Fees by Being Organized and Prepared
VALUE: $5,000 - $10,000+
Time and Money Saved By NOT Making Costly Mistakes
VALUE: $5,000 - $10,000+
The Confidence That Comes from Knowing What You're Doing.
Priceless

What's Your Peace of Mind Worth?

The value of the Divorce Road Map 3.0 is well over $15,500. (And that's using a conservative estimate!) 

But the REAL VALUE it provides is the confidence, clarity, and peace of mind you'll get by using it.

  • Instead of spending countless hours scouring the internet for information and "hoping" you found everything you need (AND that the information you found is accurate) you'll KNOW what you need to know to navigate your divorce with confidence.
  • Instead of making divorce decisions randomly as you go through the divorce process and ending up getting stuff in your settlement that you don't even care about - while missing out on the things you do - you'll have a concrete PLAN to guide you through your divorce step-by-step.
  • Instead of wasting money paying your lawyer to do things you could have (and should have!) done yourself, you'll be ORGANIZED and PREPARED every step of the way.

The value of all that is PRICELESS.

I'm on a mission to change the way the world divorces.

Now, as one person, I KNOW I can't change the divorce system in even one city, let alone around the whole country or the whole world.

But I can change it for YOU.

I believe that when you KNOW BETTER, you'll DO BETTER.

I believe that if I can empower you to MAKE BETTER CHOICES you'll end up in a better place when your divorce is over.  

When you're in a better place, not only do YOU prosper, but so do your kids.

Here's Your Investment

$   15,500.00

Total Program Value

$997.00  

OR

3 Payments of $397

YOUR Investment

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Single payment option
(Best Value)

$997

  • Immediate Access to the Entire Divorce Road Map Program
  • Downloadable Handouts and Checklists you can use in your divorce
  • Continued Access to the Divorce Road Map Program for a full year
  • One easy payment                                           
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3 monthly payments
(Easy Installments)

$397 x 3

  • Immediate Access to the Entire Divorce Road Map Program
  • Downloadable Handouts and Checklists you can use in your divorce
  • Continued Access to the Divorce Road Map Program for a full year
  • One payment now, one in 30 days, and one in 60 days.

Here's What Other Divorce Road Map Customers Said

Extraordinarily Practical

What appealed most to me about this program is that it aligns with my way of thinking. I am naturally practical and appreciate order and straight-forward action steps. I wanted and needed a “been there, done that”, objective voice of reason. I was experiencing enough conflicting thoughts, so I did not need to “add to the peanut gallery”. It was comforting to me that some actions I had already taken were on target. It also was a great road map of what to do next and to expect.

  Anonymous

This Program Saved Me Time and Money

I had been researching lots of “what to expect” but found this the most comprehensive. It also had the bonus of being able to re-review as needed. I never questioned the cost. It is a bargain as it equals the expense of ONE HOUR of an attorney’s time. It saved me a lot of time and expense because I was able to not only provide much of what would be needed, but also point out where to go for what I did not have. It made me a better partner and more able to contribute to the outcome for which my attorney was advocating.  

  Anonymous

Comprehensive and Cost Effective

When I first dove into Karen's course, I didn't really know what to expect. I was pleasantly surprised at how complete and detailed her information was. Karen answered every question I would have asked an attorney (at $400/hr by the way) and even more that I would have never thought of asking. Karen's communication style is clear and her empathy made me feel that everything was going to be ok which is so important for couples facing divorce.

  Anonymous

Still Not Sure If This Is the Right Program for You?

The Divorce Road Map 3.0 is Perfect for You IF …

1.      You’re thinking about divorce and you want to be sure you understand what you’re getting into BEFORE you start any divorce process.

2.      You’re in the early stages of your divorce and you already see your costs skyrocketing and you want to take control of your divorce before things get really out of hand.

3.      You'd love to be able to divorce amicably IF possible and you’re willing to do your best to make your divorce as painless (relatively speaking) as possible for you and your kids.

4.      You’re the kind of person who wants to be in charge of your life rather than let others control your destiny.

5.      You’re tired of investing countless hours Googling information, researching lawyers, looking up “how to” articles on divorce, and trying to find ways to gather reliable information and put it all together in a way that makes sense.

6.      You’re worried that your lawyer will “stir the pot” and make your divorce a hundred times worse than it needs to be, or should be.

7.       You're ready to invest in yourself  knowing that you could save thousands of dollars in attorney’s fees just by implementing a fraction of what you learn in this program.

If found yourself nodding in agreement to three or more of these questions, then you owe it to yourself, your family, and your future to let the Divorce Road Map 3.0 Program show you how you can have a more amicable, affordable, and efficient divorce.

Go From Anxious and Overwhelmed to Confident and In Control

Going through a divorce without a Road Map is like trying to build a house without a blueprint. You might manage to do it, but in the process you'll endure an enormous amount of unnecessary frustration and expense, and the end result probably isn't going to be what you had in mind when you started.

faq

Q: I know that divorce varies from state to state. Will this work in MY state?

Absolutely!

Even though DIVORCE LAW varies from state to state, THE WAY DIVORCE WORKS is pretty much the same in all states.

Divorce involves emotions, finances, real estate, taxes, kids and more. That’s true no matter what state you live in. It also involves negotiation, planning and strategy. The Divorce Road Map 3.0 will help you understand how to deal with all those areas of your divorce.

(Also, FYI, The Divorce Road Map 3.0 doesn’t list out all the divorce laws in every state. Doing that would be completely mind-numbing and pretty much useless. What's most important is that you understand how the divorce process works AND what questions to ask of a divorce lawyer. Once you know the right questions, getting the answers you need becomes much easier.)

Q: I don’t want my spouse to know that I signed up for anything related to divorce. If I buy the Divorce Road Map 3.0, what will show up on my credit card?!

Great question! I totally get it.

That's why all you will see on your credit card is “Karen’s Programs.”  The words "divorce," "divorce lawyer," "divorce coach," or even my full name "Karen Covy," will NOT show up on your credit card. 

You also have the option of using a prepaid debit card or Paypal. You can also have a friend pay for you on THEIR credit card, and then you pay your friend back!

Q: Do I need this program if I've got (or I'm going to get) an attorney?

Yes!  Here's the unfortunate truth about divorce today.  Lawyers make money when you fight. It’s not in your lawyer’s financial best interest to make sure YOU are educated about divorce. What's more, lawyers have the curse of knowledge. They have been doing what they're doing for so long that they've forgotten what it's like to NOT know how things work. So they often don't explain things to you at the level that you need them to.

What’s more, it’s not just WHAT you know that’s important. It’s WHEN you know it.

If you’re going to bake a cake, knowing that the recipe requires two eggs is important. But if you don’t realize that you’re out of eggs until after all the other ingredients are already in the mixing bowl, then making your cake suddenly becomes way more complicated.

When your lawyer doesn't give you information (or ask you for information!) until the last minute it's too late to plan anything. You have no choice but to REACT rather than ACT.

Q: Can’t I get all this information I need for free on the internet?

Maybe ... but probably not.

You can get a lot of great information on the internet. The problem is you don’t know WHO is writing it, WHEN it was updated last, and WHETHER it’s accurate. Reading information that some angry human wrote after their divorce 10 years ago may be comforting (or not!) but it also could be totally wrong!

You also don’t know what you don’t know. You don't know if you're asking ALL the questions you need to ask, or whether you're asking the RIGHT questions. Missing juste one piece of critical divorce information is enough to put you in a world of hurt both as you're going through your divorce and for years afterwards.

Q: I'm so overwhelmed already. Will I have time for this?

I get it. Going through a divorce takes a TON of time.  But it's going to take a ton of time no matter what you do. So the question is not "Will this take time?" It will. But the RIGHT question to ask is whether the time you spend will be worthwhile.  (It will.)


The RIGHT question is whether this program will cost you MORE time, or SAVE you time?


Because this program is available to you 24/7/365 you can watch it on your own time. You can watch  the videos anywhere you want, and any time you want, and as many times as you want WITHOUT having to spend time searching for it. In the long run, that saves you time.


Q: How long do I have access to the Divorce Road Map 3.0 Program once I get it?

You will have unlimited access to this program for one full year AFTER the Divorce Road Map 3.0 goes live. That means that by buying the program now, you'll have access for at least 15 months.

(Btw, if you need access to the program longer, no problem. Just let us know and we will do our best to make sure that you get access to everything for as long as you need.)

Q: Is this program good outside of the United States?

Probably not.

Even though I’m confident that the Divorce Road Map 3.0 will help you no matter where you live, it is specifically designed for U.S. residents. Because of that, if you are getting a divorce outside of the United States, this is NOT the program for you.

Don't Wait!

Get the Divorce Road Map 3.0 and Start Paving the Way to a Divorce with LESS Conflict and Expense NOW!

A Personal Note From Me

Going through a divorce is rough no matter how you cut it. But the amount of anxiety you feel about your divorce will decrease dramatically once you know what you're doing. The Divorce Road Map 3.0 will give you the knowledge and the tools you need to help you get through this difficult time more amicably and efficiently so that you can move on to the next chapter of your life with greater confidence and ease.

Remember, in the end, what you really want is to be okay. You want your divorce to be a blip in the radar screen of your life - not the defining moment of it.

You can do this.

~ Karen

Karen Covy Divorce Coach and Lawyer in a blue dress against a black background
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