Ready for Divorce?

Are you tired of pretending that your marriage is fine ... but you're not sure that you're ready for a divorce either?

Take this Quiz and find out how ready for divorce you really are. 

ARE YOU A SUCCESSFUL PROFESSIONAL OR BUSINESS OWNER

WHO IS TRAPPED IN...

  • A loveless marriage that you're afraid will never change?
  • A divorce that's getting more ugly and expensive by the day?
  • A life that hasn't brought you joy in so long you're not sure even remember what joy is?

You don't have to live a life of quiet desperation just because you're afraid that if you get a divorce it will be ugly and expensive (AND you'll lose everything you've worked so hard to build!).

You also don't have to fight your way through a divorce that leaves you emotionally drained, financially strapped, AND ruins your relationship with your kids.

In short, you CAN divorce amicably and with integrity and respect ... IF you know how!

Welcome!

I'm Karen Covy, a recovering divorce lawyer and mediator turned expert divorce coach, consultant, and life strategist.

I help successful professionals and business owners:

  • Confidently decide whether to stay married (or not!) so they can finally get off the fence and start living their life.
  • Navigate through their divorce with knowledge and purpose so that they don't waste more money on divorce lawyers than what's necessary.
  • Get a better outcome in their divorce than they would if they stumbled blindly through the divorce process and left their fate to a divorce system that doesn't operate the way they expect and quite frankly doesn't care about them.

Are You Ready For Divorce?

Getting a divorce is never easy. But it doesn't have to destroy your life.

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IF YOU WANT TO GET THROUGH YOUR DIVORCE MORE

AMICABLY, EFFICIENTLY, AND COST EFFECTIVELY

THEN THE WAY THAT YOU GO THROUGH YOUR DIVORCE MATTERS ... A LOT!

Handing your life over to your lawyers, a judge, or the court system and just hoping everything works out is NOT going to get you the result you want or deserve. That's especially true when you have a lot to lose.

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If you want to end up in the best place possible AFTER your divorce, then you have to take control DURING your divorce. You have to manage your divorce team so that you can keep your divorce going in the direction you want. You also have to plan as much as you can BEFORE your divorce. 

In short, YOU have to become the CEO of your own divorce.

WHAT YOU YOU DON'T NEED:

  • To spend months scouring the internet trying to figure out how divorce works,
  • To spend tens (or hundreds!) of thousands of dollars fighting with your spouse in court, only to end up with the same deal (or a worse deal!) than what you would have ended up with if you had just settled your divorce amicably from the start, or
  • To try to do everything yourself in a system you don't understand with rules that don't make sense.

WHAT YOU DO NEED:

To get guidance from an experienced divorce professional who understands how the divorce system works and can guide you to make the right decisions as you go through the divorce process so that you give yourself the best chance of ending up in the best position possible once your divorce is over.


It IS possible to get divorced without breaking the bank, spending years  fighting, or having your kids end up in therapy for the rest of their lives. 

BUT IN ORDER TO DO THAT, YOU HAVE TO KNOW HOW. 

I CAN HELP.

Karen

I CAN HELP YOU

DECIDE

what kind of marriage and life you truly want AND find the guts to act on that decision - whether that means doubling down to make what you've got better, or gracefully letting it go to make room for something new.

DISCOVER

what you need to do/ learn/ have/ and be in order to get prepared for divorce and move  yourself forward in a way that doesn't destroy your life, cost a fortune, or ruin your kids' lives.

NAVIGATE

through your divorce in a way that gives you a better chance of getting the outcome you want so that you can get out of the muck of divorce and MOVE PAST it as quickly as possible.

... ALL WHILE BEING THERE TO SUPPORT YOU IN THE PROCESS.


My Clients Get Results

HERE'S WHAT THEY SAY

We laid out a plan she believed would help me, my family and my marriage.

"I was lost, I didn’t know what to do or who to talk to when my wife thought we should get a divorce.  I have known Karen for a number of years and I knew she specializes in situation like this, so I called her.  She talked me down from the abyss I was standing over.  ...  It has been 2 years and my wife and I are still together. 



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Client 

Karen is always encouraging and insightful, while also being just enough of an accountability for me to keep me moving forward even through difficult steps.

 Karen has been an incredible resource for me in the first few years of a high conflict co-parenting situation.  She has helped me grow in setting boundaries and diffusing unnecessary conflict, while also helping me to understand how to own the power I have and how to make decisions that are right for me and my family.  ...  I know that I am far more confident and hopeful for my future having worked with Karen! 

Client 

Karen helped me to navigate with direction, hope and courage that it would all be worth it.

Thank you so much for having this information, your support and encouragement!!!!!! ... My Divorce was final last week, I went through it in a way I never dreamed possible. Thank you! I hope many others find your information, support and encouragement as well!

 



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Client 


IF YOU FIND YOURSELF WAKING UP AT 2 AM WORRIED ABOUT:

  • Making the wrong decision and having to live with the guilt of that forever;
  • Getting taken advantage of financially in your divorce while your spouse lives high on the hog;
  • Alienating your kids and ending up lonely and alone for the rest of your life.

Having an expert divorce coach by your side can change everything.

How I Can Help


COACHING & CONSULTING

How Divorce Coaching Works

Divorce coaching helps you understand how the divorce system really works, prepares you  for what you'll be facing as your divorce progresses, and helps you create a solid plan that will give you the best possible chance of creating the outcome you want.

  • If you're struggling to decide whether getting a divorce will be right for you, divorce coaching can bring you the clarity and peace of mind you're seeking. 
  • If you're worried about minimizing the damage and expense divorce causes, divorce coaching can help you create a strategy and a plan to get through your divorce with less conflict, time, and unnecessary expense. 
  • If you're facing mediation and you want to make sure you do as well as you possibly can, divorce coaching can get you prepared for your mediation so you know what to expect and are in a better position to get the result you want.  

How Divorce Consulting Works

Divorce consulting gives you an independent "second opinion" about what's going on in your divorce. 

  • If you're stuck in the middle of your divorce and don't seem to be going anywhere ...
  • If you're not sure your lawyer has your back ...
  • If you are thinking about changing lawyers, but aren't sure whether doing that now will be a good idea ...

A simple consultation can help you figure it all out so that you can plan a way forward with confidence.

DIVORCE ROAD MAP 2.0 ONLINE DIVORCE PROGRAM

The Divorce Road Map 2.0 is an online divorce program. It's easy to access and easy to use. It's available 24/7/365. So when you have a burning question at 3am, this program is there for you. Most of all, The Divorce Road Map 2.0 will help you PREPARE you for your divorce step by step so that you know what's coming and actually make a plan to get through it more confidently.

BOOKS, VIDEOS AND OTHER RESOURCES

Hiring a divorce lawyer isn't enough. If you want to get through your divorce with the least amount of drama, pain and expense YOU have to understand how the process works. These resources will help.


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