You can.

That’s not to say that getting divorced will be easy or painless. Divorce means change. Change is hard. It’s always uncomfortable. It’s usually painful.

What you want to know, though, is that once your divorce is over, you’ll be okay. You want to know that your kids will be okay. You want to know that going through the pain of divorce will be worth it. (And, if you could find love again after your divorce, that’s even better!)

Obviously, when you’re just starting out, you don’t know how things will end up. That’s part of what makes getting a divorce so scary.

There are no guarantees. Yet, some people navigate divorce with less pain and problems than others. Doing that takes three things:

• Confidence in your decision to divorce (or acceptance of your spouse’s decision);

• Proper preparation and control over your divorce process; and

• Getting the right support.

As a divorce coach and recovering divorce lawyer, I can help you do all three of those things and more.