Divorce is one of the most overwhelming and disorienting experiences you can face. The legal system is set up for battle, emotions run high, and the fear of spiraling legal bills and losing your kids can cloud every decision.
Most people believe divorce means one thing: hiring a shark, filing in court, and bracing for war. They assume all they have is a binary choice between staying trapped in an unhappy marriage or enduring a brutal legal battle that destroys everything they've worked to build.
None of that has to be true for you.
You can Choose Your Divorce - and go through the process with less damage, more dignity, and outcomes that reflect your values.
Welcome!
I'm Karen Covy, the calm inside the storm.
As a Divorce Lawyer and Mediator turned expert Divorce Coach and Consultant, I help smart, successful people turn divorce from something that happens TO them into something they actively shape.
Whether you're struggling to decide whether to divorce, or you want to divorce amicably outside of court, or you're already embroiled in legal warfare, I provide you with the clarity, structure, and support to transition from chaos to strategy and make divorce a beginning, not an ending.
I CAN HELP YOU:
DECIDE
... what kind of marriage and life you truly want, whether that means doubling down to make what you've got better, or gracefully letting it go to make room for something new.
DISCOVER
... your divorce options so you can be fully prepared for what's coming and choose the divorce style that fits your values, not just accept what the system imposes.
NAVIGATE
... through your divorce with strategy and dignity so you can protect your future, preserve your peace, and redesign your life on your own terms.
My Clients Get Results
HERE'S WHAT THEY SAY:
We laid out a plan she believed would help me, my family and my marriage.
" was lost, I didn’t know what to do or who to talk to when my wife thought we should get a divorce. I have known Karen for a number of years and I knew she specializes in situation like this, so I called her. She talked me down from the abyss I was standing over. ... It has been 2 years and my wife and I are still together.
Karen is always encouraging and insightful, while also being just enough of an accountability for me to keep me moving forward even through difficult steps.
Karen has been an incredible resource for me in the first few years of a high conflict co-parenting situation. She has helped me grow in setting boundaries and diffusing unnecessary conflict, while also helping me to understand how to own the power I have and how to make decisions that are right for me and my family. ... I know that I am far more confident and hopeful for my future having worked with Karen!
Karen helped me to navigate with direction, hope and courage that it would all be worth it.
Thank you so much for having this information, your support and encouragement!!!!!! ... My Divorce was final last week, I went through it in a way I never dreamed possible. Thank you! I hope many others find your information, support and encouragement as well!
Are You Ready For Divorce?
IF YOU FIND YOURSELF WAKING UP AT 2 AM WORRIED ABOUT:
Having an expert guide by your side can change everything.
Work With Me Directly
I'm your lighthouse in the storm—providing steady guidance so you can protect what matters most and build the life you actually want.
Divorce Coaching
Turn overwhelming chaos into a clear strategy and a concrete plan. Understand your options, prepare for what's coming, and navigate with confidence instead of just reacting.
Decision Coaching
Get off the fence about your marriage. Whether that means recommitting with intention or choosing divorce with clarity and compassion, the key is to stop living in limbo.
Legal Consulting
Get an independent second opinion when your divorce isn't going according to plan. Get unbiased guidance from someone with no agenda except helping you divorce your way.
Take My Online Courses
The Divorce Road Map 3.0
Take control of your divorce process from day one. Understand your options, prepare strategically, and avoid costly mistakes that could derail your future.
How to Successfully Mediate Your Divorce
Get prepared for mediation so you don't make a bad deal. Learn to advocate for yourself effectively, even if your spouse is a better negotiator.
When Happily Ever After Ends
Get practical, down-to-earth, divorce advice about how to get through your divorce without ruining your life.
In this book, you will discover the 3 universal laws of divorce, uncover the games people play during divorce, and get tips about how to deal with your spouse when s/he is playing those games.
You'll find out how to manage every aspect of your divorce — from dealing with custody, to managing your finances, to navigating the court system, and dealing with your emotions
Don't Just Survive Your Divorce. Redesign Your Life.
Divorce is a relationship shift, not a life collapse.
You don't have to stumble blindly through the most important transition of your life. You can reclaim your power, protect what matters most, and use this transition as a foundation for the life you actually want.
Are you ready for divorce?
Need clarity on your next step?
Karen answered questions I didn't even know to ask.
- Client
For anyone going through the process of divorce that has no idea about the legal system or the divorce process, I strongly encourage hiring a divorce coach first. Karen Covy was able to answer questions for me that I didn’t even have.
She encouraged me to clearly set goals that mattered most; guideposts for when times got tough. Learning to think like a lawyer before I even hired a lawyer helped tremendously in keeping me grounded and focused on the task of dissolving the marital contract.
... Mostly the coaching was spot on and offered objective and attentive support. I do not believe I would have come to “a decent end without divorce coaching”. Thank You Karen Covy!
