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Deciding whether to divorce is one of the hardest decisions you’ll ever make. That’s why so many people stay stuck in misery for years. If you’re struggling to decide whether to divorce,these tools can help.

You know you’re not happy. But you also don’t want to make your life (and your kids’ lives!) worse.

Maybe your spouse had an affair, and you’re wondering whether you should end your marriage.

Or maybe you had an affair, and for the first time in ages, you felt alive again! Yet, as good as it was is as bad as it was. You never thought you’d be the kind of person who would have an affair. So, you’re torn.

Or, maybe you’re only thinking about divorce because your spouse brought it up. You don’t really want a divorce. But now you’re trying to figure out what to do because your spouse does!

No matter what your situation, if you’re reading this, my guess is that you’re not happy. You don’t want to live like you’re living. But you’re terrified of doing anything that could be a mistake.

If you’re nodding your head in agreement right now, I can help. Here are articles and resources that can guide you toward the clarity that will bring you peace.

When You’re Thinking About Divorce, But Just Aren’t Sure

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Being stuck in indecision is hell.

One day you’re sure you want a divorce. The next day you find yourself thinking that maybe your marriage isn’t so bad.

You’re afraid to let go. But most days you wonder why you’re holding on.

You’re not happy. But you convince yourself that maybe you’re not so unhappy either.

You’re stuck.

Meanwhile, life goes on.

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Articles About Making a Decision About Divorce

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When is it Time to Divorce? 18 Questions to Help You Decide. Trying to figure out the best time to divorce is tough. The truth is, no time is ever the perfect time to divorce. Yet, if you find yourself spinning in your head and can’t decide whether and when to divorce your spouse, asking these questions can help.

Should I Get a Divorce? Deciding whether to get a divorce is probably one of the biggest life decisions you will ever make. Here are 7 different options you can use to help you answer the question: Should I Get a Divorce?

I’m Afraid to Get Divorced, But I Don’t Want to Stay Married Either! You are totally miserable, but you’re not sure that divorce is the answer. You’re torturing yourself, going back and forth in your head about whether to get a divorce. What’s worse, there’s no end in sight! What do you do when you don’t want to stay married but are afraid to get divorced?

9 Tips for Managing Your Fear of Divorce. Is your fear of divorce paralyzing you? If you know you want (or need) a divorce, but can’t seem to bring yourself to move forward, these tips are for you.

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Ways to Figure Out Whether to Stay or Go

Discernment Counseling: A Way to Cope When Your Head Says “Stay” & Your Heart Says “Go”.  Deciding whether to get divorced is painful, but staying on the fence is worse. If you can’t decide whether to stay or go, discernment counseling can help.

I Am Stuck in an Unhappy Marriage and I Want a Divorce … I Think?! What do you do when you are stuck in an unhappy marriage but you are not sure if you want a divorce? Here is how to get unstuck and start moving forward.

Is Staying in a Bad Marriage Killing You? Staying in a bad marriage is no one’s idea of fun. But, staying in a bad marriage does more than just make you emotionally miserable.  According to science, staying in a bad marriage can actually kill you.

3 Things You MUST Agree on For a Trial Separation to Work. Sometimes taking a short break from your marriage will give you the time and perspective you need to figure things out. But, if you don’t manage a trial separation properly, it can easily turn into a divorce. Here’s what you need to know.

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Dealing With Infidelity

Help! My Spouse Cheated! 10 Steps for Dealing with Infidelity. What do you do when you discover that your spouse cheated? Here are 10 steps for dealing with infidelity and deciding whether to try to save your marriage or not.

What to Do If You Suspect Your Spouse is Having an Emotional AffairThere’s more to cheating these days than just sleeping with someone. Here’s how to discover if your spouse is having an emotional affair, and what to do about it!

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What to Do When Your Spouse Wants a Divorce, But You Don’t

Help! I Don’t Want to Get Divorced But My Spouse Does! What do you do when you don’t want to get divorced, but your spouse does? Here is practical advice for dealing with the divorce you don’t want.

Surprising Marriage Advice from a Divorce Lawyer. Who would ever think to get marriage advice from a divorce lawyer? Yet, no one knows what can go wrong in marriage better than a divorce lawyer

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